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| "Just be Yourself" is Hurting you with Women? |
By:
Gabriel Angelo |
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A question a lot of people always ask me is..."Why should there be any information on how to attract women?"
"Why can't I just be myself?" Ah, yeah, everybody tells you that. "Just be yourself and you will get the girl!" Now the problem you need to realize with the advice of "just be yourself" is this...
If you tell somebody who is dyslexic struggling to learn how to read to just be himself and be confident, although this is great motivational fuel, you can't just deny the truth he is dyslexic, and he would then forever be struggling trying to learn how to read; however, give him the necessary tools and teach him how to apply it, and that will be his own specific tree of knowledge.
Or if you tell a newly hired inexperienced technician to just be himself, do you thing he is automatically going to be good at his job? No, he had to go to school and have been through the necessary training first and get experience taken care of.
Now for a guy who is struggling with women all his life, and you advise him to still be himself? Then he will always be horrible with woman, doing the same wrong things continuously that his old-self has been doing and not know what to do with a woman if one was given to him, unless one day he luckily finds "The One" who falls out of the sky on top of him like out of some magical destiny. But the chance of that is very slight, besides would you rather be the master of command of your dating destiny?
The special case is if you are already a master with the ladies then feel free to be yourself, but why then look for getting women advice and go through all this painful hassle; and you wouldn't need anybody to tell you to just be yourself...because you would already know that.
And then later this advice changed to "being your best self". What does that mean? How do you be your best self? Do you just say to somebody to be "his best self" and magically he will be his best self and automatically be getting all the girls his condoms clogged his toilet?
In actuality, it doesn't work like that. To be your best self, still connotes you need to work on changing yourself because your are not YET at your "best self".
To sum up, being yourself is counterproductive, if you are not already good at something. Keep in mind as the saying goes, "If you keep doing the same thing, you will keep getting the same result."
Or Albert Einstein's way of defining insanity of insanity: "Doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results."
Gabriel Angelo runs http://www.socialnatural.com, with the unique approach to dating and meeting women, by focusing on developing your "social skills" to be the most socially savvy person you can be, not just with women...but everybody. Although the arts are primarily related to dating and attracting women, they can be applied to other aspects of your life from social, dating, personal, and even professional.
For more information, please visit http://www.socialnatural.com.
http://www.socialnatural.com
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